Category Archives: Children

The Sweet Song of the Shy Child

Parenting the shy or anxious child is a series of exercises in letting go. We want to protect our child from the difficulties and pain of the world, yet we know that meeting those challenges is what gives our child the strength to … Continue reading

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Parenting the Shy Child: A Look at Labels

Although “shy” is not a negative term in our minds, we realize it’s sometimes not considered a desirable trait. Bernardo Carducci, a nationally-published researcher on shyness, frequently comments on our society’s prejudice against shyness. He says, “The problem is a … Continue reading

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From Quiet to Queen: Kayla’s Story

This is the story of a little girl who felt terribly afraid. So afraid that at times she was unable to speak or move. Although this story has its share of sadness, it ultimately ends in triumph, and with a … Continue reading

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Tips for Teachers: Working with Young Children Who Are Shy

Last week we posted Back-to-School Tips for Parents. We’re continuing the theme this week with Tips for Teachers. Figure out what your shy students are interested in. You can ask them, use interest inventories, notice what they wear (sports jerseys? … Continue reading

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Back to School Time: Tips for Parents

Returning to school after the summer break can be stressful for many kids, but this is especially true for cautious, quiet kids who take longer to adjust to new situations.  And it can be stressful on parents, too, who want … Continue reading

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Rugrats as Therapy–Chuckie and the Slide

As a psychologist, I have read many books and seen many training videos that explain cognitive behavior therapy (CBT). The best video, though, was not produced by a mental health professional. Instead, it is a cartoon that has aired on … Continue reading

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The Wisdom of Chuckie

This past week, there was a letter to Dear Abby about a little girl who was too shy/anxious to talk with her aunt on the phone. When the aunt would visit, the girl would hide in her bedroom and not … Continue reading

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